Their forgiveness was striking. Members of Charleston’s Emmanuel African Methodist Episcopal Church lost nine cherished members in a terrifying shooting in 2015 and offered swift absolution. Holding back tears, Nadine Collier, whose mother was killed in the attack, said, “but God forgive you, and I forgive you.” Astonishing.
Fast forward to the time of Pope Leo XIV, who provides an expansive way to view forgiveness:
True forgiveness does not wait for contrition but is offered first as a gift. When we experience wounds and betrayal, let us ask for the grace to offer true forgiveness, even when we feel misunderstood and abandoned, or even when it seems to be in vain. In this way, may we know the freedom and peace that comes from a loving and forgiving heart. (Summary of the General Audience, 20 August 2025)
During Lent and the Easter season, we have had a chance to reflect on sin, seek forgiveness, and experience the gift of God’s mercy. Forgiving those who cause harm is scriptural, uplifting, and what Jesus taught. Indeed, when we pattern our mode of forgiveness on the mercy and grace of God, it may be easier to view the hurting world and our own
