Originally published at National Catholic Register
Take a step back from the excitement of the season to find Christ in the calm. It’s beautiful!
It’s supposed to be “The Most Wonderful Time of the Year,” but it’s also, ironically, a season when parents often lose their peace. Here are some practical ways to feel God’s peace during the Advent and Christmas seasons.
1. Discuss expectations with your spouse and children. Will we see Christmas lights? Which parties and dinners are we attending? How much are we spending on presents (see No. 3)? What will we plan to bake and cook for the big meal? Are we going to Mass on Christmas Eve, Christmas Day, or both? Having discussions beforehand will eliminate (or reduce) confusion and give you time to plan.
2. Make a schedule. It’s amazing how quickly the calendar fills up, but keeping a schedule will offer a visual account of the busyness. It also allows you to “block out” time for rest and enjoyment at home so no one gets burned out mid-season.
3. Agree on a budget, and stick to it! You know you’re going to buy presents, stocking stuffers, host gifts and decorations, so plan for them! My husband Dave and
